tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1107542310136355575.post6531499156940291824..comments2023-06-22T04:30:01.178-05:00Comments on Fabulously Neurotic: I've got one word for you: BrideChanelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18159248995263246944noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1107542310136355575.post-32107283733216818322012-03-06T15:12:59.938-06:002012-03-06T15:12:59.938-06:00An open bar is asking for trouble in some circles....An open bar is asking for trouble in some circles. I think a two drink limit is a good way to go.Chanelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18159248995263246944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1107542310136355575.post-59543122545853710002012-03-06T07:29:38.329-06:002012-03-06T07:29:38.329-06:00I also like when there's good food and an open...I also like when there's good food and an open bar at a wedding too.Bryan Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01607046468663026271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1107542310136355575.post-44844829383569341902012-03-05T22:24:44.399-06:002012-03-05T22:24:44.399-06:00The point of the job is right there in the title: ...The point of the job is right there in the title: Bridesmaid= maid of bride. Bridesmaids are the helpers. Keep her calm, keep her happy, make sure she doesn't have a melt down and lose it on the big day. She needs to be unbridesmaided. It's an honor and she acts like she's bestowing a personal favor!Chanelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18159248995263246944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1107542310136355575.post-68582583635303095572012-03-05T20:12:50.450-06:002012-03-05T20:12:50.450-06:00I would have uninvited her. And probably unbridesm...I would have uninvited her. And probably unbridesmaid-ed her. Because that is just ridiculous. I agree with you, it is about the bride and no one else. Bridesmaids may be considered in the cut and cost of their own gowns and that's it. Everything else is about supporting the bride on her big day- that's the whole point of being a bridesmaid. So good luck with that.Ms Jennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12481034665237054448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1107542310136355575.post-85917370169040853262012-03-05T19:58:54.176-06:002012-03-05T19:58:54.176-06:00Parts of it are kind of fun, I think. Helping her ...Parts of it are kind of fun, I think. Helping her find a wedding dress will be fun, at least. And helping to pick the cake. I love tasting cake! It's so awesome!<br /><br />Lydia is, as my mother would put it, cruisin' for a bruisin'.Chanelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18159248995263246944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1107542310136355575.post-70650178800289551582012-03-05T19:56:48.879-06:002012-03-05T19:56:48.879-06:00She did that via Facebook. Much safer that way. Bu...She did that via Facebook. Much safer that way. But it's not going to save her from her just desserts if she keeps at her current behavior.Chanelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18159248995263246944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1107542310136355575.post-80059966717295254272012-03-05T19:56:06.964-06:002012-03-05T19:56:06.964-06:00That's the safest place for a man during weddi...That's the safest place for a man during wedding prep. Just say, "Whatever makes you happy."Chanelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18159248995263246944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1107542310136355575.post-37996674447607989792012-03-05T19:55:23.366-06:002012-03-05T19:55:23.366-06:00Hey, we're nicer about it down here. Apparentl...Hey, we're nicer about it down here. Apparently up North men don't get the groom's cake at all. There's just the Bridal cake. So no pouty faces.<br /><br />Well now that you're hearing about it...don't you kind of want to just a little bit try on a gown? Hmmm?Chanelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18159248995263246944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1107542310136355575.post-88612577154816496142012-03-05T16:37:59.848-06:002012-03-05T16:37:59.848-06:00Ick. Weddings. Can't even deal. I do not envy ...Ick. Weddings. Can't even deal. I do not envy you for all the wedding prep you're about to undergo.<br /><br />And YES....Lydia really, REALLY needs some sense slapped into her. Figuratively or literally. Either way.Nickihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03830994879944216241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1107542310136355575.post-3699374420296845772012-03-05T12:24:58.896-06:002012-03-05T12:24:58.896-06:00If it was me I would have slapped her when she ask...If it was me I would have slapped her when she asked to try on the dresses!!xAltheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17089445713150822100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1107542310136355575.post-83258297762492714072012-03-05T09:32:30.138-06:002012-03-05T09:32:30.138-06:00As a semi-typical man, I'll just raise my hand...As a semi-typical man, I'll just raise my hands in surrender and say "Okay. I'll be over here watching the cake. Let me know if you need any heavy lifting done."JustRexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00389126268262607714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1107542310136355575.post-88581462236873167862012-03-05T07:34:22.090-06:002012-03-05T07:34:22.090-06:00"Meh, he gets a cake and that's the only ..."Meh, he gets a cake and that's the only part that's his." :(<br /><br />Nah, you're right though, we generally don't really care. I eloped myself, actually, and I've never regretted it, and I've never once had the urge to try on a wedding gown and dream of what might have been ;DBryan Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01607046468663026271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1107542310136355575.post-41108048112708309852012-03-05T00:28:18.812-06:002012-03-05T00:28:18.812-06:00Oh yeah...haven't seen Kane around lately but ...Oh yeah...haven't seen Kane around lately but I'll TOTALLY send him her way if she can't be a grown up about this.Chanelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18159248995263246944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1107542310136355575.post-30565685183586511602012-03-04T23:31:20.788-06:002012-03-04T23:31:20.788-06:00Holy freaking CRAP!!! I'm glad Relly said no, ...Holy freaking CRAP!!! I'm glad Relly said no, and I'm even more glad that you are going to be there to slap some sense into Lydia if she keeps being difficult about this. (I'm going to go ahead and hope for the best, but it's good to be prepared...)<br /><br />Either way, I agree with you. Lydia made her choice, now she has to live with the consequences and find some way to handle it gracefully. <br /><br />Or end up with a red handprint across her face and a ghost named Kane sent after her...Candicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09845151308757943750noreply@blogger.com